Marriage Tyrade

"Get the money! You are in charge. Get the money. It is your company. Get the money." Said wife to husband.

"I will. I need some more time." Answered husband

"This marriage will fold up because of you. You are weak. You are not a man."

"There is a lot of outstanding liabilities. Those are issues that has to be covered."

"You promise me a car. You promise you will get it. I don't care about anything. I am going to leave this house. You will not find me. I think I hate you."

"Honey I promise you. I will get the money. You don't have to be mean about this."

"This is all your fault! For years I have been talking what a joker you are. You are not even good in bed." Wailed the sobbing wife. "What do I have to do to get this money from you?"

"I am not serving any useful purpose." said husband in self pity. "I will check my life insurance before I leave this earth."

The wife eye lit up at the sound of the word life insurance.

"That as well, I have been waiting for all these years."

The man eyes open wide in disbelief and shock.

"How could you stoop so low."

"I never loved you. You know that. I am sick to the stomach when ever you touch me. I loathe you." wailed the wife.

"Come tomorrow I will be moving."

"None of the children are yours! Two are Jerry's and the other three is Richards." She continued to brow beat and belittle the husband.

This is the woman he had slept with every night and lived with all his heart. Now she had cut and shredded him to pieces.

He will fix her.


To continue...

Put The Horse Before The Cart

There is a saying "you don't put the cart before the horse..". In other words do things orderly. Or try and do things the right way.

A girl meets a man. They have sex a few times. He keeps visiting her at her home.

No marriage talks.

She calls and wants money for down payment on a house. The man has not seen the house as yet. So he asks a question about the property. Her response, "you will have to take my word for it. You will have to trust my judgment."

Man gets upset.

He decides relationships need to cool off.

Next.

Telephone rings.

Woman on the line. She wants money. More money. Western Union the funds. send it quickly.

Man gets more upset. Claims woman has no interest in him. She failed to ask how he was doing. If he needs any thing.

Man believes woman only interested in material things. She has no interest in him as a human being. She was out to get his money. Had she shown any interest in him as a person, she would have gotten all the money she needed.

Put the man first and everything else will follow. In other words put the horse before the cart and things will run in the right dimension.

Unhappy and Hurting?

"You have seen them. All bouncy and happy. And inside they are like "white sepulchers with dead bones inside." Don' get caught up with the facade! Look underneath for the rut. And you will save yourself a lifetime of headache and heartache. (This was from an email a friend was sharing with me this morning.)"

So I counteracted: No one is perfect. We all have our faults. We all have baggages. So what do we really do? His lame response was I have a point.

But after discussing the contents of the email a bit more and hanging up the phone, I began to think there indeed might be a lot of folks out there who are bitter and hurting.

Now are you one of those persons who on the outside, look like you are in Zion, eating milk and honey but inside you are boiling cauldron? Then all hope is not lost? What do you think will subside the turmoils, hatred, bitterness, emptiness, loneliness in your life? Your needs?

The answer is simple. Turn your life over to someone who can fill that void. Completely revolutionize your outlook and resuscitate your approach to real living. Sleep happy knowing someone else is carrying your burdens and sorrows.

Someone really loves you.

Are you ready to take this step of faith?

Who is this someone?

His name is Jesus. Call him today! Ask him to show you the way.

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Cheap Phone Calls

Nowadays you can have your your family call you on a US telephone number anywhere in the world where you are if you have internet service available. First you will have to buy the number say from Skype for about US$60 and renew it each year for about the same price. You will also need a skype phone and "skypeout credits. As long as your internet is up and running when ever your family calls the US number your skype phone will ring. This is excellent value for money.

Yahoo also offers a similar service. Yahoo, however is cheaper than Skype.

Even better Skype to Skype is FREE. All you need is a computer and a headset or skype phone. I usually sell these (skype phones) extremely cheap.

For further information please contact me at: persaudanthony@yahoo.com

Loose Talk.

Choose what you can handle. Don't go over bounds and harm yourself. Bite what you can chew. These are all sayings to caution those men who want women that are too hot to handle. These are basically women who demands 50/50 or eye for eye in everything. At that rate you will certainly die early.

These women have unrealistic ideals, such as the husbands should cook one meal and they will cook the next meal. Husbands should do laundry one day and they will do the next. And so on. Everything must be split equally. An eye for eye.

If you marry such a woman and your life is hell and miserable. All hope is not lost. There are still lots of good opportunities awaiting. Do your auditing before you engage the client.

Planning For Success

Failing to plan for success is planning to fail. Planning is essential for success as oxygen is to living. Businesses that are growing and spreading has at their core both short term and long term plans. Sometimes the plan is called a budget. And it is usually for one year (short term) or five years (long term).

In a long term plan income and expenditure is budgeted for the next five years. Possible sources of income is determined. Sales, production, etc are all taken into consideration. Marketing strategies are developed. Policies and other strategies are established. Expansion and growth into different locations are incorporated into management long term plans. Then capable staff are hired to implement and execute these projects.

Similarly in an individual life also there need to be plans not just for current issues but long term goals as well. Planning for a house, a car, a computer, a home theater, etc all need careful consideration, in light of priority and current and future resources. Spending should be done with careful deliberation and perhaps consultation over a period of time. It should not be a spur of the moment thing.

I have seen businesses that failed because there is a owner/ manager that spends at the spur of the moment. I have seen people who lost everything because of trivial decisions concerning spending. So treat your money with respect. Plan carefully. And success will walk by your side.

And remember haphazard spending will cause haphazard results.

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Is There A Better Way To Success?

Two weeks to exam. It has been a hard long road to climb. But somewhere down the stretch is a glimmer of light. It will grow brighter with each passing day, I hope. As the saying goes, gold is purified through fire. And all hardship and endless work put into the churner will come hopefully success. Again I hope so.

But is the above really true in a true sense? Or is there a better way? Do we have to toil for so long and hard to enjoy success? What are our alternatives? Do we really need an American dream to enjoy life? How do we define success? What is real happiness?

Do we really need such a big house, such a large TV, such an expensive car? Will something less costly fulfill the same requirement as the so costly? Would our lives not be better without the burdens of liability?

Imagine for thirty years tied up in debts and constantly nagging bills that wearies your soul? How much frustration will you broadside on your loved ones? What neglect of quality time with your offspring do to your health? When will it all stop?

Certainly there is a better way.

Strike a balance!

to continue.

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Marriage Possible? After Age 35?

What is the most difficult thing to do? Yeah go ahead say it aloud.

You are right? Deciding to get marry after the age of thirty-five and choosing the right person and then going through with it before changing your mind for the umteenth time. Mmm! Yes it is that difficult! It is like rocket science.

Look around you and see how many single folks are still waiting to tie the knots and are over age thirty-five. Many names comes readily to mind. Why are they still single and lonely? Is it their looks? Or is it something that happened earlier in their lives? Lets continue.

At thirty-five most persons are already set in their ways, especially in making certain decisions and doing things a certain way. But marriage requires compromises. Changing sleeping habits, shopping, alone time, tv time, etc. It means compromises! What a dirty word!

Even worst than the above some feel threatened financially! No gold digger was going to come into their lives and rob them in high daylight! Nobody was going to take away their houses, lands, cars, and empty their bank account. Anybody coming into their life had to come with equal footings if not even better.

Now realistically most over the thirty five age persons who are not married, are single and still looking for that person that fit the hypothetical "wealthy, well off, educated career image." And both sexes continue to insist on the right factors or combination of factors to get to the altar.

Lets look at the reasons men put forward for not really getting married to women:

1. Women over thirty five most likely would be bringing their baggages. (kids, financial needs, etc)
2. Washed up. Whatever that means.
3. Disrespectful.
4. Refuse to cook and clean.
5. Want to continue to act as if still single.
6. Uncontrollable

Lets look at the reasons women put forward for not wanting to get married to men:

1. Men must own houses.
2. Must have good jobs.
3. Must have healthy bank accounts.
4. Must be romantic.
5. Be controllable.
6. Be faithful.

Well, well. In fact all the reasons put forward are mere excuse for really not getting married. And this is because of inbred insecurities. Lots of these folks comes from broken homes. In many instances their homes were very abusive. And this translates itself into a cycle. Self esteem and self confidence is rock bottom.

In closing one should note that"if there are no pre-unrealistic conditions" marriage will take place faster. So get out of your box and the next thing that comes along get "cosy" and "hooked-up!"

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All Hope Is Not Lost

There is an intelligent little girl down in Guyana. She lives in a home where the mother has little or no interest in the child's education. Worst they are dirt poor. This little girl often misses school, due to the fact the mother sends her down the streets to sell certain items to make ends meet.

One day all this was changed.

The plight of this little girl was described to a few persons. Then one day British Virgin Island Citizen volunteered to sponsor this smart little girls education and to aid in her welfare. Now this child is attending a private school, and all her school supplies are being met. She is excelling!

So hope for mankind is not totally lost. Help in the form of our brothers keeper still exist. Doing good is still part of our traits.

There are still hundreds of children like this today in Guyana. Reach out in whatever way you can and become a candle in the dark to such a child. God Bless you.

The Dogs' World

A new culture of disrespect has slowly crept in on us that has torn the very fabric of our structure of solid family life apart. A woman use to pride herself in her husband and vice versa. Children use to fear adults and conduct themselves in the most respectful of ways, around grown-ups.

But nowadays it is a dog's world. Yapping and barking everywhere. Husbands and wives pretend to be in love, but just hanging in there to see who dies first. The material possessions has created monsters of beauty. And the clock is watched constantly as the days ticked by.

Women no longer need men in their lives, except as guinea pigs to cage. One person in fact has put it that men are now domesticated creatures for women to lord over. Whatever the conclusions, men has become wimps, who like jelly fish bow to pressure in order to stem disgruntlement and problems.

Women has been abused till, even when good comes along it appears distorted. And so sleeping with different men is just formality. There is no perception between nobility and esteem and disrespect. So now good women are pushed by friends to do things that will destroy a happy marriage.

The cycle get more and more vicious. There is this couple I know, where the wife so hate the husband and claims she prays for him to die. The husband who at forty-five prides himself as a ladies' man, boast of all the eighteen years old girls he is the sugar daddy for. In fact he dreads going home to his nagging wife. Well she claims she does not get any sex at home so she has to get it on the street. So the fight continues.

No one wants to leave the house and start fresh. Too much is at stake. So the tongue lashing continues. Lies! And more lies!

Well what ever happened to love?

Tell me.

BVI - IT IS RAINING

It is raining heavily. The sky is dark grey and it is difficult to see in the distance. About a thousand yards, away from my window I could see into the blue dark atlantic ocean, the outline of the Queen Mary II. I was glad for the rain.

Last night the thunder rumbled across the sky for what seems like forever. I had gotten up twice in the dark to go to empty the cistern. On both occasion the window pain trembled at the deep rumblings emitting out from an unknown spot just above my head.

Four thousand miles away in NY, this morning my son had gone to Syracuse on a Spanish trip. His brother meanwhile had gone to work and had called to report he had sold five warranties for Dell. He was bursting with pride on his accomplishment.

Meanwhile I was scratching my head. For weeks now we were planning on buying a used car. Unfortunately we were short about three thousand dollars. Life is tough. But the beauty about life is it is never insurmountable. Where there is a will there is always a chance of getting things done.

Now the rain is coming down even harder. I wish I was home with a book in bed drifting into fable territory. Until another day.

CHILD SUPPORT

It was on the morning I had to reach work early, when out of nowhere a a figure loomed up beside my car and demanded what job I was doing.

"Are you a lawyer?" He demanded.

"An accountant! Why?" I enquired.

"I need some advice. Do I have to pay child support even if the mother is taking my child far away, that I would not be able to see him again?' His voice was pained this time around."

I looked him square in the eyes and asked, " What is the decent thing to do?"

He stumbled for words. So I continue, "the child is your child, is that not so? He has your heart, your blood. So tell me what is the right thing to do?"

Finally he finds his voice and says quietly with a smile on his face. " I got you!"

As he walked away from my car where I was sitting in, I hollered, "I hope your wife does the decent thing and tells the child always, you are his dad!" He did not look back.

Turniing the engine over I backed out of the yard and headed to the heart of Road Town of Nature Little Paradise. What else is there to say? But just do the decent thing!

Culture of Hard Work

The out of school and college workforce must seek from the initial stage of joining the employment force to adopt a culture of hard work, diligence, reliability and goodnatureness and to maintain this as a personal philosophy wherever they should go in life. Hard work never kills, as some would have us believe. Rather it enables one to quickly climb the ranks of promotion and favor. The rewards for hardwork are too numerous to be listed, nevertheless let me hasten to add, increases in salary, promotions, responsibility, positions of trust, friendship, respect, favors, etc.

Other factors to be embraced by the new energetic workforce in this culture of hard work are focus, commitment, speed and accuracy. In all facet of life one should always strive for excellence whilst maintaining an attitude of resolute incorruptibility.

Important considerations also includes timeliness, punctuality and respect for others. These characteristics should be the personal mantras by which we live and strive to excel in life in a working environment.

Roll up your sleeves and get to work!

Garbage Shopping

It seems nowadays "high" for many victim shoppers is garbage shopping. "garbage shopping" is buying stuff that after two days is discarded and becomes useless. At the time of shopping it seems like a good deal and that you really needed that item. But shortly afterwards, you discover that you really "don't need it."

Bear in mind your impulsive behavior lulls into believing you need to buy things that you really don't need. This type of behavior makes you the spender feels good. But this kind of effects (highs)wears off very quickly. And before long you become a habitual spender on un-neccessary things. Your hard earned incomes is slowly drained like a wrsit slashed.

Garbage shopping always seemed uncostly because it is merely a few bucks. Your mind works in a way that makes you think that somebody, perhaps a child need this and that. That is not true. Garbage shopping over a few weeks can run into thousands. This can have a detrimental affect on your dreams and other more meaningful goals.

So next time you feel the need for a high, take a walk in the park. Its free and you will be more healthy.

Smart Shopping

Seek advice before making the final decision on any electronic purchases. Talk to your kids or friends. Research a bit online. This might seem like simple advice, but its weighty in savings. It can also prevent subsequent regrets after you have made your purchase.

If you need a better price or deal feel free to email me. It would not cost you anything, but I am sure you would be able to save a few dollars.

Remember only buy what is neccessary.

Biblical Codes

Paul Crouch founder of TBN wrote a book about the end times (ARMAGEDDON) revealing many of the biblical codes discovered by several computers programmers/experts. The mere fact that such details has been there for so many thousand of years and is now being discovered is chilling to the core of the bone. A question I keep asking myself is how intelligent is this Intelligent Being we called God that he can encode stuff for thousand of years some of which has been fulfilled and yet there are many, many more to be fulfilled?

I will not attempt to tell you all the codes discovered so far that Paul has in his book, but I can tell you this, the codes discovered so far are not only mind boggling but a fearful revelation. And even if you are not a believer of God, these codes will have a sobering effect on your mind. (the discoverers are being converted to Christ). Many past and even present events relating to individuals and places, such as the twin tower, George Bush, Osama Bin Laden, assassination of Israel Prime Minister Rabin, etc. are all encoded in the holy scriptures (the bible).

Now having said that it brings me to the point, where I want to ask can we discover codes that deals with future issues and seek the face of an Almighty merciful God in an effort to avoid his judgement. And the answer is yes! Although Jesus the Son of God issued a lenghty projection on what the end times will be like in the four Gospels I do believe there are some shocking codes yet to be discovered in these accounts. I urge the experts to dive in. Tell us quickly what you have found.

Meanwhile may we all heed the actual scriptures and not wait on the codes to convert us.

House or mouse?

Late one night during last week my wife scolded me for being a material freak. In no uncertain terms she let me know I was spending uncontrollably. She claimed I was engaged in buying too much stuff that the children had no time to make use of. (some stuff were still unopened). She insisted I was wasteful. For a response I directed her to my blog (realisticliving.blogspot.com) but as usual reading was too laborious for her. So my son did the honors of reading to her an earlier blog I had posted, "Are You A Deceived Spender". Before he could finish reading, my wife interrupted, emphasising loudly I needed that more than her.

The crux of the whole matter was we did not own a house but was spending on unnecessary stuff. For years now we had been talking and planning to buy a house. But this was like the an elusive dream, that the greedy collusive capitalist were trying to bury. Not having a house was the root cause for several unwanted flare ups in our home. I got try harder.

The week before my wife insisted I was "reliving my childhood" in my children because I had bought a dragonfly helicopter for one of my son. Well where did that come from I could not tell. It had me thinking. Reliving my childhood. Was not a bad idea. Let sleeping dogs lie.

So I decided that I was going to tighten up the screws! Cut down on the expensive lunches. Stop visiting my favorite web sites that usually wakes me up in the night, telling me about "free shipping" and "clearance sale". I was going to stop shopping online and elsewhere, period. I had to do it.

I was going to spend my time in a more worthwhile manner studying for my CPA exams. But even then with my books sprawled open in front of my wide open eyes, in came this loud yahoo flash, like a boom to my brain ...HD DVD was now selling at...What? My mind was too bombarded with buying stuff. Any stuff. Get a grip of yourself I warned myself. Think about the house your family needed.

Anyway I have to run. My head feels like it throbbing.

The Shadow Man

The Shadow man is there in the home with his wife and kids. He moves about, eats, works and acts like a zombie. He shrugs at everything hurled his way. He appears as if he is always deep in thought.

He is never confrontational. He doesn't argue or stand up for what he believes in. He gives the impression he is fearful of the outcome of his actions or what he might say, so the shadow man is immobilized and weak.

On the other hand his children disrespect him, curses him, treats him like he is a kid. The wife worst yet, walks all over him. She goes and comes as she likes. For weeks on ends she disappears and turns up suddenly and the shadow man swallows quietly whatever she says was her excuse for being away. All he does in these times is to walk out of the door and into the yard and away from reality.

Shadow man forks up all his money to his wife and helps with the shopping, etc. But everything shadow man ever owned belongs to his wife. The car, motor bike, household items, they all belongs to her. Shadow man is a good provider but he is just a shadow. He seems to exist only in theory. But yet he is real!

His wife is infuriated. She cannot stomach nor stand shadow man. She hates him. In fact she despises him. He lacks backbone. He is gutless. He does not bring down his foot on matters like other men would and the way she wants him to. Oh how she wishes for him to be a man. But shadow man would not rise to the occasion.

And now more and more with the passing of time shadow man's wife loathes him. She would have left him long ago for his indifference, except for the fact shadow man was her financier. In her quiet moments mere thoughts of him enraged her.

Long and hard she had thought that the final solution was to walk away from all. Leave shadow man to decay into into his own shadows.

But she could not! He was only a shadow.

Shadow men are now cropping up in many homes in America. Are you one one of them? Stand up and be counted, not as a shadow man but as a real man.

When You Think...

It is uncomforting to think you are the one that always seems to have the odds stacked against you. Poor you. Only if you had been rich, or if you had this or that, or if you were smart, or your parents were different, then things would have been different, in fact better. Is this really so? You groaned and complained other folks seems to have all the luck and breaks in the world. Things always going other people way. Why is that so?

Complaining and pitying yourself is your biggest enemies. You are not unlucky. You are not alone in this world to have faced a few stepping stones in your path. Besides you are not alone in this world of complicated economic systems. So the question is how have others managed to triumph in the face of adversity, struggles and harsh difficulties. What are their secrets? Is it possible for you to triumph now, at this stage of your life and be successful?

There is a simple saying, garbage in, garbage out! Translate this to mean what you formulate your life to be is what it will produce. Simplify further, is what your mind conceived as a concept to living, based on what you feed or program it to believing, is what it (your life) will generate. Simply put, change your concepts, life style, mind set, and you would be on your way to having the lucky breaks, success, etc.

Now say with me, "I am blessed. I am prosperous. I am smart. I am intelligent. I seem to have all the lucky breaks. I enjoy living! It is good to be alive! God is with me." Program your mind with these thoughts and watch God do some amazing stuff for you. Remember to give God the glory though. Isn't it amazing how wonderful and creative our minds that God give us, can be when we allow it to flourish on healthy thoughts?

Go spread joy!

Are You A Deceived Spender

Material stuff who needs it?
Oh yeah, you need a new car, you need a larger house, you need a new computer, you need...you need...and so it goes.
Lulling you into believing you need a host of material stuff to be happy, the greedy capitalist injects your minds with a steady dose of advertisements and collusive writers. And after a while you become numb in differentiating between what is reality and myth. So you become a spendaholic.
Drugged into believing you need cheap things, the "dollars stores", "close out sales" "clearance", etc. keep up the daily onslaughts on your mind. Spending brings you euphoric "highs" that wears off by the time you get home. Then the real frustrations kicks in and you spew vile adjectives at your spouse and children. Your anger churns up a steady cauldron of hate for every little issue.
Everyday leads you to more frustrations as you become more and more indebted and poorer. But there is no turning back, you have already swallowed hook, line and sinker.
What can you do?
Step back and recognize that you were deceived into believing you needed "stuff" that you really did not need. Recognized a trick was played on your mind. And you were duped, drugged and lulled into believing you needed stuff to make you happy, when in fact that was a LIE!
You don't need stuff to make you happy.
Your family is your real source of happiness. Time with God will bring you indescribable joy. Quality time with friends will help you to be wholesome and relaxed.
Find things to do to make others happy.
Plant a garden. Paint a house or draw a picture.
Become part of a charitable organization.
Think of something good to say to someone.
Finally give away what you have got to the needy! STOP the spending, and watch your live gets better and better, debt free! You DON'T need "all" material things to be happy or to make your family happy. Just spend time with your family. Go for a walk. And you and your family will be happy!

Prayer - Does It Really Work

Does praying to an invisible God really works? Does God care? Is God interested in what you have to say? Will God answer and do something tangible about what you have prayed for?

Have you been praying for years without results? What specifically have you prayed for that God did not do something about?

God answers prayers! He heals the sick! He provides for the needy! He opens doors of wealth and prosperity. He is a Father to the fatherless. And above all God is interested in you as a person.

Are you suffering from pain, loneliness, despair. Are you anxious for something? Are you looking for educational success? Are you trying to find satisfaction?

Perhaps you need to first address the void in your heart, that has all these years been silently crying out for God. Allow Jesus into your heart, and then watch the miracles flow.

Prayer works. Be bold! Have someone pray for you.

Chemistry - The Right Kind

Whether divine input has something to do with it, or not, I don't know, but some husbands and wives just seem to have this right chemistry about them, that everything they do in life, seems to strike that perfect cord. There love making for instance leaves both satisfied, fullfilled and happy.

Whereas with some husbands and wives, discontent from their love making spreads over to the other areas of their lives, resulting in constant bickering and quarelling over little or nothing at all. Their lack of chemistry sometimes translates into violent confrontations, or passive reactions, leading to further frustrations and unhappiness. And the real issue of their chemistry is ignored.

So the question is how do you strike or find the right chemistry. What is the formula? What do you look for in a person? Is compatability the main ingredient? Does physical height has anything to do with it? Or is it attitude that plays a greater roll in striking the right key? Should a believe system be taken into account?

Well some of the above are essential, in striking the right chemistry. Characteristics such as attitude, tolerance, compromises, etc. are fundamental qualities needed. Being sensual, seductive, passionate, emotional, bold, open minded are additional qualities needed to fine tune the formula. So when your spouse wants to explore new ideas, don't get uptight and mean, but be a willing experimentor if the act is wholesome.

Indeed it will take chemistry to keep you satisfied. So work on the formula. Who knows you might have already have the right combinations. Go for it!

BEST BBQ - BABY BACK

Ever wondered why some BBQ taste so good that you wish you can make it as good as that? Here is a simple way of trying.

Boil the baby back ribs in a pot of water. Add at the beginning, all your seasoning that you like, such as garlic, onion, spices, pepper, etc. After 1/2 of an hour drain the water and put ribs on your grill. Allow both sides of the ribs to cook before applying your sauce. Soon as you apply your sauce twice take off immediately.

YUM. Enjoy!

Want To Be A Millionaire?

Want to be a millionaire? What are your plans in becoming a millionaire? Hope to win the lottery? Skylark whilst doing a 8 to 5 job? Watch TV and drink a few bears? Go to church and pray? Steal? Inherit a million in a will? Hoping Bill Gates or Oprah Winfrey will call you?


Wake up! Stop day dreaming! Go get two to three jobs, spend less, save more, cut out or eliminate cable tv, cell phone, reduce voluminous eating, rent a smaller apartment. Spend less! Why buy a 50" tv when a 13' or 19' shows the same stuff a bigger tv will show anyway? Think big, but think also "spend less".


Be faithful. Confine yourself to ONE woman only. Women equals money.

Seek to eliminate all overheads. Don't turn on all your lights, fans, ac units, tv, all at the same time. Only use what is absolutely necessary. Store extra food in your fridge or freezer. Hot up and eat when hungry. NO snacks. Snacks are unhealthy. It causes you to suffer from hunger and excessive fat.


Walk rather than drive. Save on the gas bill. And at the same time improve on your health. Maintain a kitchen garden rather than buy a bowflex. The waste of your stored energy just exercising on a machine can be better used to mow your lawns, plant a garden, play soccer, etc.


Educate yourself further. Get a master or a doctorate or become a licenced professional.

Start a small business. Become a sales agent.

Invest wisely. Scout around and see who is offering you the best rates, deals, etc. And make your money work for you.

Congradulations you are on your way to being a millionaire.

Be The Man

Nowadays more women are demanding their men step up to the plate and be a man. Women are fed up with jellyfish type like behaviours from their men, and are demanding that their men show some backbone. You would hear women saying things to weak men like, "stop being a weasel!" "Come on be a man." "Show me what you are made of."

So it is up to the men to stop thinking that being "yes man" will make your woman loves you. Be a leader in your house. Set the pace. Ask for your woman 's contribution. Do some "yard" work. Stop being a jelly belly lying in front of your television accumulating "tyres".

Men don't be sissies! Women hate sissies. Men have you ever heard the term "eye-pass"? It is a another phrase for disrespect. Your woman will disrespect you if you act like "sissie". Act like you are wearing the pants the pants in the house. Lay down the legislation in your home. Rules are neccessary for a successful relationship.

Men your woman wants you to be strong. She needs a strong shoulder to lean on. Be there for her. Love and respect her. Cherish and crush her with love. Be the man!

No Pie In The Sky

I hate fat. It prevents a person from being mobile and fit. But I like looking lean and mean. No tires around the waist for me. So I exercise two three times per a day. Even in the hot Caribbean sun during my lunch hour in the middays. Running, push-ups and abdominals. Nowadays I even get a ball and throw it against my bedroom wall and catch it. Sometimes I even dove the ball like a soccer player.

So now I am beginning to slim down. Good gosh I am loosing weight. I am beginning to look tall and gangly.

Contrast that with those who eats large portions of food, coupled with chocolate, icecream, etc. and claims they want to look slim. Balderdash! There is no reality about that. No pie in the sky talk. Put your money where your mouth is. Walk the dream rather than talk it.