Tuesday, June 5, 2007

Chemistry - The Right Kind

Whether divine input has something to do with it, or not, I don't know, but some husbands and wives just seem to have this right chemistry about them, that everything they do in life, seems to strike that perfect cord. There love making for instance leaves both satisfied, fullfilled and happy.

Whereas with some husbands and wives, discontent from their love making spreads over to the other areas of their lives, resulting in constant bickering and quarelling over little or nothing at all. Their lack of chemistry sometimes translates into violent confrontations, or passive reactions, leading to further frustrations and unhappiness. And the real issue of their chemistry is ignored.

So the question is how do you strike or find the right chemistry. What is the formula? What do you look for in a person? Is compatability the main ingredient? Does physical height has anything to do with it? Or is it attitude that plays a greater roll in striking the right key? Should a believe system be taken into account?

Well some of the above are essential, in striking the right chemistry. Characteristics such as attitude, tolerance, compromises, etc. are fundamental qualities needed. Being sensual, seductive, passionate, emotional, bold, open minded are additional qualities needed to fine tune the formula. So when your spouse wants to explore new ideas, don't get uptight and mean, but be a willing experimentor if the act is wholesome.

Indeed it will take chemistry to keep you satisfied. So work on the formula. Who knows you might have already have the right combinations. Go for it!

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